tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30637238517406203902024-02-18T17:30:45.668-08:00Diary of a Pro-life GirlDolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.comBlogger162125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-48818058533987452822013-09-02T09:11:00.000-07:002013-09-02T09:11:58.478-07:00Quote of the Week: "You did not exist until you were born" "As for the moronic pro-choice claim that women and men do not reproduce until the child is born, I first heard it at college. While discussing prenatal homicide with my feminist college advisor, I said, "Before I was born, maybe I didn't have legal rights, but I was still me, right?" She answered, "No Chris, you did not exist until you were born." In this case, I was never inside my mother's body. Before your birth, your pregnant mother had <i>something</i> alive in her womb which only <i>became</i> you at birth. [...] When I confronted a second professor about this, he said when a child is born, it has been "retroactively" inside his or her mother, but that if there was an abortion, no child was killed."<br />
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From <a href="http://liveactionnews.org/abortion-homicide-denial/">Live Action</a>.<br />
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Have you ever heard such anti-scientific, ridiculous drivel? I honestly cannot believe that college-educated people believe this crap. At least pro-abortion pre-natal scientists admit that abortion kills individual humans (as long as the abortion occurs late enough into pregancy), and that the justifications used for abortion also justify the killing of newborn babies, and children even up to the age of 2 or 3. Those beliefs are repulsive, but they are honest. This feminist crap completely denies reality. Which is worse, to be willfully ignorant in order to justify your beliefs, or to be honest about them and just not care?<br />
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<br />Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-51936638385490200862013-07-25T17:03:00.000-07:002013-07-25T17:03:52.320-07:00Pro-Choicers confuse me sometimes ...I've had many great discussions with compassionate (if awfully mislead) pro-choicers, and I always try to listen carefully to what they say and understand their reasons for being pro-choice. In fact, I am friends with more pro-choicers than pro-lifers, and I love all of them to bits! <br />
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But sometimes I come across a pro-choicer who just doesn't make sense to me. Case in point:<br />
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Anastasia Blackwell is, according to her twitter profile, a "Proud Pro-Choice Advocate". Now, I don't know what "destroyed" means in abortion-land, but here in life-city it means:<br />
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1. Put an end to the existence of (something) by damaging or attacking it. <span style="font-size: x-small;">(Google Definitions)</span><br />
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2. Completely ruin or spoil (something). <span style="font-size: x-small;">(Google Definitions</span>)<br />
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Considering my name is "ProLife Girl" and pro-choice rhetoric often involves the intentionally vague phrase of "freedom of choice", can it really be so hard to understand exactly what I meant? Have I converted a pro-choice advocate, or has she twisted my words to somehow mean that a baby destroys his or her mother's life? If so, can this truly be considered a strong, rational argument for the freedom to choose abortion? After all, if that child is already born, an acceptable solution to the mother's hardship would not be to pull of the child's arms and legs and then crush his or her skull now would it?<br />
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I hope most of us would answer no. In that case, why should it be a solution of the child is still in the womb?<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">(Of course, Anastasia could be mistaken in her view of what an unborn child actually <i>is</i>, which is not such an unusual belief. Most pro-choicers I know would never support abortion if they thought a baby in the womb was a human being. Of course, if you are a pro-choicer, arguing about the hypothetical "destruction" of the mother's future life is not an effective way to convert a pro-lifer who believes that unborn children are persons deserving of rights. Pick a better talking point. They exist, I promise). </span> Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-36455514944329276862013-07-11T07:02:00.000-07:002013-07-11T07:02:25.379-07:00Who cares whether the fetus is viable? Quote from Jessica Grose, former editor of Jezebel<br />
"A lot of women have abortions and don't look back. A lot of <b>women don't want a baby</b>, and they <b>don't care whether the fetus is viable</b> or how much money is in their bank account." Jessica Grose, from "<a href="http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2013/07/09/abortion_essays_why_must_they_always_be_so_sad.html">Enough With the Grueling, Wrenching, 'I Had an Abortion' Essays</a>" <br />
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And this is why, like I keep saying, the abortion debate is not about bodily autonomy. If it was, viable fetuses would be "aborted" through early induced birth, not through actual abortion. After all, both procedures stop you from being pregnant, right? And the whole reason why abortion should be legal is because women should be able to decide if they want to be pregnant or not, right?<br />
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Reading things like this make me SO angry. Thank goodness most of the people I know who are pro-choice are not actually pro-abortion like this former editor of Jezebel. No wonder that website is vomit-inducing. Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-38204703980738382242013-07-10T09:54:00.001-07:002013-07-10T09:54:57.455-07:00Free societies need ...... women with balls. Apparently this is synonymous with women who want to kill viable and/or pain-capable pre-born babies and deny women safety regulations.<br />
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And this is after Kermit Gosnell, Douglas Karpen, and Live Action's "Inhuman" investigation. Anyone can go read the Gosnell grand jury report to see why exactly these atrocities were allowed to continue (hint: it wasn't because abortion clinics were over-regulated!).<br />
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Seriously. The stupid and hysteria burns my eyes.<br />
<br />Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-43422328658468588792013-05-16T11:12:00.001-07:002013-05-16T11:13:37.973-07:00The strongest pro-choice argument: comments on J. Savulescu (2013)<br />
This is the first installment in my series "The strongest pro-choice argument", which will focus on analyzing and responding to Volume 39, Issue 5 of the Journal of Medical Ethics. Issue 5 is a special publication which has been made available to the public as an expansion to the article "After-birth abortion: why should the baby live?", which was recently published by Giubilini and Minerva.<br />
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This piece by Julian Savulescu acts as an introduction to the debate. <br />
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Reference: <a href="http://jme.bmj.com/content/39/5/257.extract">Julian Savulescu "Abortion, infanticide, and allowing babies to die, 40 years on" JME 39, 5 (2013)</a><br />
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This is a very good introduction by the editor of the JME. He briefly describes the controversy around Giubilini and Minerva's 2012 publication, but like so many academics, is barely able to hide is confusion with regards to <i>why</i> the article stirred up such an intense, angry backlash. He understands disagreements, but not name-calling or death threat.s I think this is both the greatest virtue and greatest flaw of the academic mind. Passion is incomprehensible, while, at the same time (and perhaps due to this), reasoned discourse is the highest of achievements. As a scientist, I can certainly agree that emotions should be curtailed as much as possible, but I truly hope I never reach a point where anger is both an unexpected and incomprehensible reaction to advocacy for the legal killing of human beings without reference to medical justification or acknowledgement of other viable option. One can imagine a mother or father reading the Giubilini and Minerva article, and being enraged and saddened at the suggestion that their newborn's life is not worthy of government protection, simply because he or she is young. Can we really blame them for acting irrationally after being confronted with such a view? I myself cried the first time I read the after-birth abortion paper. Of course, I waited until I was more rational before commenting on the article, but can we really fault those who did not wait? Especially if they have not been trained in academic discourse?<br />
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Indeed, I think it ridiculous that such reactions are even mentioned in an academic journal, which should only focus on rational, well-written arguments. Instead, we are treated to references towards the most extreme and hateful reactions towards the article. This is a clever and subtle way of linking all those who drastically disagree with Giubilini and Minerva (i.e.: pro-lifers) with the few who thought putting death threats into print as perfectly acceptable.<br />
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Of course, what seems perfectly acceptable depends on how one views this issue. I realize pro-choicers find this exceedingly hard to believe (indeed, contributing authors touch on this later on in the journal issue) but many pro-lifers really do view a human embryo as having an equal claim to right to life as a human adult. Many more "mushy" pro-choicers and nomincal pro-lifers view 3rd trimester fetuses and newborn babies as having an equal claim to right to life as a human adult. And many more people irrationally consider birth as the moment when human beings recieve an intrinsic right to life which lasts, unchanging, throughout the rest of a human's life. So if it is widely agreed that newborns, at the least, have a right to life equal to that of a human adult, then let us take this parallel a step further. Imagine that instead of infanticide, the authors had argued in favour of something as horrific as Nazi Germany's medical experiments during WWII. Would the article have even been published? If it had, would immediate legal action for "hate speech" or "incitement towards violence" have occurred? Would anyone have faulted those who sent violent mail to the authors? Indeed, would any of us fault a WWII contemporary for sending death threats to Hitler or his medical researchers?<br />
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While such reactions, in my opinion, should not be a part of public discourse (EVER), I don't think any of us would consider such people to be "in the wrong". Those of us who are anti-infanticide indeed view newborns as having equal value as the Jews who died during the Holocaust (though undoubtably mental and physical torture prior to killing is far worse than a quick death - but if Hitler had killeed the Jews swiftly, cleanly, and painlessly, would any of us spare him even a single shred of respect?) so of course we pro-lifers are absolutely horrified and our immediate reaction is to view Giubilini and Minerva as horribly evil monsters. Of course, rational discourse, <i>understanding, and</i> <i>compassion</i> is ALWAYS the best way to proceed, so such feelings should be curbed as quickly as possible, but I do maintain that they are perfectly reasonable initial responses. If we view newborns as equal to adults, then indeed this controversial paper is hate speech of the worste kind, directed towards some of the youngest and most defenseless of our peers.<br />
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<span style="font-size: x-small;">[Aside: I apologize for using the tired example of Nazi Germany above - but sometimes it really can be used to make a point. Hopefully, I have succeeded here. Let me know if you think it would make more sense to word things differently, I want to make sure my thoughts are as clear and coherent as possible!] </span><br />
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All this being said, Savulescu definitely has some interesting points with regards to euthanasia, though I do think that he conflates the two issues of euthanasia and "after-birth" abortion. In my understanding, euthanasia can be interpreted as "<a href="http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/euthanasia">palliative killing</a>" and this definition does not apply in the case of a healthy newborn being targeted for death. That being said, euthanasia of infants has been practiced throughout human history - often openly and legally (ex: the <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Groningen_Protocol">Groningen Protocol</a> in the Netherlands). The point Savulescu successfully makes is that different cultures disagree on if/when it is acceptable to kill newborns, even today in our "enlightened" society. Apparently, when infanticide can be considered moral or immoral is a conversation worth having.<br />
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Obviously, I think that this is an absolutely horrifying conversation to have, but unfortunately the situation today is such that this is a necessary (even critical) debate to engage in.<br />
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1. Savulescu discusses how, in neonatal intensive care, if doctors withdraw treatment the death of the baby is not a crime, but if the parents take it upon themselves to remove treatment, the infants death is considered a homicide. The author argues that the morality of an action should not depend on the person doing it (he compares ending life-extending treatment to running). I believe he over-simplifies the issue here. There are countless examples of when the "goodness" or "badness" of an action depends on the people involved. For instance, if an adult punches a child, we rightly consider that action deplorable, but if two siblings, especially below the age of 10, get into a fist fight, I would consider these children undisciplined but kind of adorable (how many youtube videos of kids punching each other have gone viral? Answer: lots.) Besides, the action of running is (literally) morally neutral and depends heavilyt on circumstance. Running away from commitments? Wrong. Running to win a race? Commendable.<br />
I always thought that the reason only doctors (with the permission of the parents of course) can withdraw treatment is because they are trained to know when/if care is futile. If my child were in intensive care, I would not know if their situation was hopeless or not, but their doctor should know - in fact, it is the doctor's job to know. Allowing non-experts to refuse/discontinue treatment runs the very obvious risk of patients who would otherwise recover, dying instead. I would think that it is obvious that this risk is not ok.<br />
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2. The example of Jim, who rescues a drowning person, is awful. In one case, he swims to save the person, but changes his mind and lets go, allowing the person to drown. In the other case, he rescues the person using his boat, and then changes his mind and throws the person overboard.<br />
I fail to see any moral distinction between these actions. In each case, Jim has the ability to save the drowning person, and begins a rescue effort. Assuming Jim's own life is never put into danger by the rescue effort, Jim's change of heart is deplorable in both cases. why does the presence of a boat make a difference?<br />
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3. Apparently, there is reason to believe that the circumstances where death is considered ok is less stringent for newborns vs. older children. I was not aware of this, and if true, this is very tragic. To quote "societal antipathy to infanticide is not as strong as it might seem at first glance." Perhaps society's reactions to infanticide are not as strong as our reactions to the murder of older children, but that hardly indicates that one is inuitively 'more ok" than the other, or that one entity has more of a right to life than the other. Consider a parallel situation where a three year old has disappeared, and then is found murdered. Now compare that situation with the disappearance and death of a thirty year old. Which is "intuitively" more horrifying? Considering the sensation the first situation often creates in the media, it seems that most of us react more viscerally to a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Caylee_Anthony">young child's disappearance and death</a>. But is the three year old more intrinsically valuable than the thirty year old? While some might disagree, I would hazard to say no. While it is more unfair to die when young, I don't think that an adult would be required to give his or her life to save a three year old, and the laws reflect that. Ergo, neither life is more valuable.<br />
A better example would be the difference in societal reactions to crimes against white women or girls vs. crimes against ethnic women or girls. It seems that a greater sensation is created in the media by the first scenario. But are whites more valuable than other races? Obviously, the answer is a vehement no, and the presence of a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Missing_white_woman_syndrome">Missing White Women Syndrome</a> in our culture is deplorable.<br />
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4. I LOVE that this guy is in favour of embryo adoption! Based on his statements about a newborn being easily adopted by others as a reason not to resort to infanticide, is Savulescu also against abortion post-viability? Does he realize that he is basing a right to life on properties extrinsic to the individual, while it is my impression that most philosophers agree that such a right should be based on intrinsic properties? I do think a coherant case could be made, it just wasn't well-stated here. I'm sure, however, that more details are provided later in this journal issue.<br />
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Overall Impression: very good summary of this debate.<br />
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Most Important Quotation: Savulescu summarizes the position of the after-abortion paper [emphasis my own]<br />
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"Giubilini and Minerva extend the long-running debate on infanticide to ask: <b>if abortion is permissible both for social as well as medical reasons, why is infanticide permissible only for medical reasons</b> (assuming that selective non-treatment is a form of infanticide)? They ask: what is the moral difference between a fetus and a neonate? As McMahan points out in this issue, there is at least a 4-month period during which a human being could be either a fetus or an infant, depending on whether delivery has yet taken place. Giubilini and Minerva point out that both have similar capacities and if one is permissible, why not the other? <b>The presence of disease or disability should not make a difference to moral status, so if infanticide is permissible for medical reasons, why is it not permissible for social reasons</b>?" </div>
Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-49521794047924944232013-05-11T11:31:00.002-07:002013-05-13T07:07:25.565-07:00Five things I think the pro-life movement needs to change<br />
#5. Let go of the gay marriage debate.<br />
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I know this won't be a popular thing to say among Christian pro-lifers, but I really believe that this is one of the biggest things holding back the pro-life message from youth today. I can't tell you how many times I have heard a pro-choicer conflate the two debates, and I believe that is largely our fault. And it is tragic. One issue involves the killing of unique human beings, the other involves two consenting adults having sex.<br />
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If you are against gay marriage and are pro-life - fine. But<i> please</i> keep these two sides of your advocacy separate. And if I have to explain to you why abortion is a much more serious issue than gay marriage, learn a bit more about what you are advocating against. Gay rights do not even come close to approaching the scale of harm that abortion rights inflicts on our society (and of course, the question of gay rights causing harm at all is debatable) - especially when we consider the young lives that are ended through abortion.<br />
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I cannot even count the number of times I have read a pro-life comment or blog post that does not address at all what the author had hoped to address. Instead, all I read are intensely emotional appeals to the evilness of abortion, the presence of the devil, and the judgement of God. While these things may be true, no one will be convinced by such appeals. What will convince people, however, is sticking to the salient points of the debate. What are pre-born humans? Do they have a right to life? Do mothers really have unequivocal control over their pre-born children, even to the point of causing harm and death?<br />
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See <a href="http://www.prolifehumanists.org/reason-lifted-high/">this</a> blog entry from Pro-Life Humanists for a non-Christian perspective. I think they have a point. Are we in this movement to save babies, or are we in this movement to convince people to believe in God? <br />
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#3. Understand science and statistics.<br />
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<a href="https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTmKSZ0VUuOSNaLFur6_xwTXWyj6WXBeMlCrkSpbMhOk6f9caqL" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcTmKSZ0VUuOSNaLFur6_xwTXWyj6WXBeMlCrkSpbMhOk6f9caqL" /></a>One other issue with the pro-life movement is that as soon as we find a study that hints at support for the pro-life side of the debate, we run with it. Pro-life blogs and spokespeople reference the study to the point of absurdity, and make statements which assume that there is no room to doubt the study's conclusions.<br />
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That is not how science works. And that is definitely not how statistics work. Read the studies you quote, read studies which draw conflicting results, and read the scientific commentary on these issues. And never, ever state anything for certain.<br />
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In any case, our thesis does not rest on whether or not abortions cause breast cancer, increase suicidal thoughts, or that most women choose abortion for economical reasons. Putting too much weight on these conclusions, especially when they may be incorrect, weakens our message. Abortion is always wrong. Period. Even if it were healthier for women to abort than give birth. Even if most women reported increased levels of happiness after abortions. Even if women choose to have abortions for other reasons besides the monetary cost of raising a child. Abortion <i>always</i> kills someone (both scientifically and philosophically) - and that is why it is wrong.<br />
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#2. Increase your reach.<br />
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Become better at reaching people. Spread the message. This is easier said than done, especially since the MSM prefers to ignore our message rather than report dispassionately on the issue of abortion. But even so, there is definitely room for improvement for every pro-life organization.<br />
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For instance, I will give an example relevant to my life as a student. If I didn't actively seek out the date of Canada's 2013 March For Life, I wouldn't know it was happening on May 9th. The university pro-life groups I am a part of haven't even bothered posting a link to the event page on their own Facebook pages. The church I attend included March for Life in their April bulletins, but didn't bother saying anything about the pro-life message or the March during the beginning of May. Pro-life friends who are actively involved in the movement haven't been searching for others to come with them to the March - in fact, I had to reach out to my campus pro-life group in order to get any information at all.<br />
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All of these pages are from prominent Ontario Universities - ones that are nice and close to Ottawa. Yet, no information whatsoever on the March. How many people are we losing because we haven't been connecting with them? If I wasn't absolutely determined to attend the March this year, I can say that I would have definitely given up.<br />
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#1. Engage the culture.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjRP3taj9wyXoZVDLoDULO1K5nETq_SGa0rBYMsDPmPsrNmmjb7AkDEXbihxp4MWa5xUZU0NxTPJVwl9bLCOmIBAVwoFjSrVqRoVClzl0UO57g-k5SarynyciuJZw4puSo6nI3ZJhFxOXy/s400/Monumento-eslovaco.jpeg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhjRP3taj9wyXoZVDLoDULO1K5nETq_SGa0rBYMsDPmPsrNmmjb7AkDEXbihxp4MWa5xUZU0NxTPJVwl9bLCOmIBAVwoFjSrVqRoVClzl0UO57g-k5SarynyciuJZw4puSo6nI3ZJhFxOXy/s320/Monumento-eslovaco.jpeg" width="320" /></a>Many pro-life leaders, in Canada and in the States, are young. Which is great. But many of them are also very devout religious people and it is hard for the average person to relate to them. We need to promote organizations and advocates who come from a different background and who advocate for a different, more secular kind of approach. I would love for a Secular Pro-Life chapter to begin in Canada. I think something like this could make great strides in the academic / university world towards converting students and professors to the pro-life cause.<br />
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How many pro-life songs (not written by Christian artists) do you know? How many pro-life pieces of art have you seen? How many pro-life movies are out there? Are they popular, or do they only succeed in the Christian niche market? <br />
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Spreading the message does nothing if it only reaches the Christian pro-life echo chamber. This is the most important point, in my opinion, because if the average person never comes across a thoughtful, well reasoned depiction of the pro-life cause, they will remain pro-choice simply because it is the status quo. Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-9145389037205929522013-05-10T10:44:00.004-07:002013-05-10T12:51:46.735-07:00March For Life 2013<br />
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This was my first ever March for Life! To say I was nervous would be an extreme understatement. As May 9th approached I found I could think about little else. I was incredibly excited to finally have an opportunity to attend the March - it is something I have wanted to do for years! But I was also terrified. Would it live up to my expectations? What would the reactions of the people living in Ottawa be? Would the pro-choice protesters be angry? Could I be rational and compassionate in the face of any opposition? Did I have it in me to be a good pro-life ambassador or would I push more people away from the pro-life side? What would my family and friends say about my attendance?<br />
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I spent quite awhile trying to decide what to wear. I have never been to the March before (in fact, I have never been to any rally or protest before) so I wasn't sure what to expect. Since March for Life presumably involves a lot of walking, I opted for my brand new (and super colourful!) running shoes, work out clothes, sunscreen, and a rain jacket just in case.<br />
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Walking to Parliament Hill was a surreal experience. I have spent so much time reading pro-life news, blogs, and websites but I have never encountered people, pro-life or pro-choice, who care about this cause. And suddenly, I was in a place where <i>everyone</i> there had something to say about abortion. And there were SO many of us! Literal rivers of pro-lifers were streaming towards Parliament. Some of them I recognized from the news, so I was very starstruck. I actually got to talk to one of the students who was arrested in Carleton a couple of years ago, and I think I almost fainted from excitement! Of course, there were also some pro-choicers, nearly all of them women about my age, and all of them with homemade signs and hipster clothes. They clearly weren't happy with us, so we just waved and smiled at them.<br />
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Parliament Hill was incredible. There were so many people, and such a diverse crowd. And so many signs, in French and English and, occasionally, other languages. Old people, priests and nuns (it was wonderful to see religious people taking a stand, as they should!), children, teenagers, students, families, so many women, and lots of babies! There were even rumours that Pro-Life Humanists attended, and I was very disappointed that I did not get an opportunity to see them.<br />
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But by far, the babies were my favourite; there is something about a baby that just gives such a wonderful testimony against the pro-choice cause. How can you argue for abortion, when the very people who die in abortions are sleeping right in front of you?<br />
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It was also wonderful to see the pro-lifers' reactions to these children. There were quite a few young, unmarried mothers there, and everyone was so filled with joy to see these families! These reactions fly in the face of the stereotype that pro-lifers are stuffy religious people who hate women who become pregnant out of wedlock. <br />
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As the pre-March rally progressed, more and more people streamed into Parliament Hill, until it became difficult to walk anywhere for fear of stepping on someone. The sky was clear, the heat was terrible, but there were few complaints. The densest area was near the stage, where MPs were giving short speeches in favour of the pro-life cause. I know that there are few MPs who are openly pro-life, so I was surprised how long the talks lasted! Clearly, there are more of them than I ever thought. By far the biggest cheer was for Mark Warawa (he's <a href="http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/pro-life-mp-decries-gendercide-inside-house-of-commons-as-25000-march-outsi">amazing</a>, by the way), who proposed Motion 408 against sex selection abortion, which just happened to be the theme of this year's March.<br />
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And finally, the March began. It took forever to funnel out of Parliament Hill. Everyone was so full of joy, spontaneous cheering broke out throughout the walk, and there was even a saxophone serenading us. I expected to see pro-choice protestors right away, but they were nowhere to be seen. I was starting to wonder if they had gone home, when we finally hit a stretch of sidewalk where they had decided to gather.<br />
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There were way less of them than I expected. My favourite moment of the March was when
I overheard a conversation between a pro-choicer and a group of
pro-life highschool students.<br />
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Pro-lifer: "Actually, we really believe in this cause."<br />
Pro-choicer: "..." [the look on her face was priceless. A mixture of I-don't-know-how-to-process-this shock and disgust]<br />
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My least-favourite counter-protester was a middle-aged man who held a sign which said: "Pro-choice dad, protect my daughters' right to choice".<br />
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Another interesting thing I noticed was that no one who was watching the protest or the counter protest joined in any significant way. I was especially surprised to see people avoiding the pro-choicers. There were many pro-choice protesters who seemed to spend the March standing by themselves, holding a sign and never saying anything. It seemed very lonely, especially in contrast to the pro-life March, which filled the streets! <br />
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My favourite pro-life protesters were the Pro-Life Avengers. I
especially loved Thor, who had "Pro-Life" written on the front of his
hammer. These guys were a huge hit with everyone at the rally. I have yet to see them in the news though, even in the pro-life news! :(<br />
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People had no choice but to notice us!<br />
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There were some press. Not a large press presense, and even though I expected this it still boggles my mind. What other rally - a rally that involves the attendance of <i>tens of thousands</i> of people - would create such a small wave in the media? But I was told the coverage was better this year (yay again!) and I did see some interviews between pro-lifers and reporters. EWTN was also there to broadcast the March live. It's times like these that I am just SO PROUD to be Catholic!<br />
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Near the end of the March, I was told we were going to walk by an abortion clinic. It wasn't clear to me where this clinic was - I never saw it - but the moment we walked by was very obvious. Suddenly, people stopped smiling. There were no cheers. There was a kind of chill over the crowd. If people were talking at all, they were talking very quietly.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeybDCnhp1S8HITaFguywXyVfi42rqGw2pnRH7ETwJElLqsu-Dgk52LobZK9iwrKMP5DBt3VjxW5b07_wflmSYN7In7ofBDYAxdET68r8EK0h5Z_USz87YfpYfCgLr5dhFmvDRFXSTtEUN/s1600/450babies.png" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgeybDCnhp1S8HITaFguywXyVfi42rqGw2pnRH7ETwJElLqsu-Dgk52LobZK9iwrKMP5DBt3VjxW5b07_wflmSYN7In7ofBDYAxdET68r8EK0h5Z_USz87YfpYfCgLr5dhFmvDRFXSTtEUN/s320/450babies.png" width="216" /></a>That was also around the time we walked by the large abortion posters - the ones which show babies who have lost their lives in the procedure. They were very hard to see. Suddenly you're reminded why you are there, and all the joy at seeing so many people marching for life leaves you, and you just wish that this didn't have to happen at all, that all lives could be protected.<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjreVrUnAczBc24RHDKntxFiX8ytE4L4YK8oc0U6ERcNuRU7shRyAwsWH6ryrrIFyleCxrpAROET6Dyc2DvQ2keptjiTrJ8mlrbHZtvMv5M7ExpHJoktsDQuW-7zD3VnZwVf3s_gOMZrL75/s1600/2013-05-09+02.44.36.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a> Then we were back at Parliament Hill. People were returning their signs to the March organizers. Many were leaving - all of the students had to return to school. The pro-choicers cleared out almost immediately, which surprised me as I expected them to hang around until the very end.<br />
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Once I reached the Hill I think it was obvious why they had left. After the March, post-abortive women and men share their testimonies, and it is very difficult to listen to the pain in their voices. It was a very fitting way to end the March, but I would like to see at least one abortion testimony spoken loudly before the March next year, so that everyone can hear it, especially the pro-choice protesters. <br />
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Then a mass started, and we left to return home. And my first ever March for Life was over.<br />
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The Positives:<br />
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1. The amount of people. The diversity in age. The amount of students and children. The amount of women. The presence of religious leaders and MPs.<br />
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3. The joy that permeated the March. The cheering. The smiles.<br />
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4. The reactions of the average citizen. So confused. So bewildered. Hopefully a few are inspired to read about our cause!<br />
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The Negatives:<br />
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1. The focus on Christianity. How many atheist or agnostic pro-lifers didn't attend, or left early, because they didn't feel welcome? That isn't to say that there shouldn't be a religious presence - there absolutely SHOULD - but I don't think there should have been a mass after the March, on Parliament Hill. The masses should occur in the churches, and be specifically for the Christian pro-lifers. If we want other people to attend the March, we shouldn't force church on them! There was also too many speakers who said they were against abortion because God is. This does not help our cause. It just makes us sound like crazy religious people. <br />
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2. The Theme. I agree that sex selection abortion is wrong, but it isn't the ONLY thing that is wrong about abortion. Aborting anyone, boy or girl, is wrong, and I think this theme overshadowed that very important fact.<br />
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4. The fact that so many people left right away. It gives the impression that you really don't care that much about the pro-life cause. Though there was still a very sizable crowd several hours after the March (much larger, I am sure, than any other crowd that comes to Parliament), if the attendance could have stayed as high as it had been during the March, that would have made a wonderful witness!<br />
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5. The amount of Christians. That in itself is a VERY good thing (this is exactly the sort of protest that Christians should be involved in!), but I would like to see a more diverse set of beliefs expressed in the March. There should be more groups like Pro-Life Humanists and Secular Pro-Life, and they need to have a strong presence!<br />
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Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-14251705169072741032013-05-07T09:03:00.001-07:002013-05-07T09:03:47.019-07:00The strongest pro-choice argumentOver the past year, I have noticed that most thoughtful, philosophically-bent pro-life websites that I frequent consider variations of <a href="http://spot.colorado.edu/~heathwoo/Phil160,Fall02/thomson.htm">Judith Jarvis Thompson's Violinist argument</a> to be the strongest argument in favor of legalized abortion. Two excellent examples include <a href="http://blog.secularprolife.org/2013/03/a-critique-of-judith-jarvis-thomsons.html">Secular Pro-Life Perspectives</a>, who has published entire series on this topic, and <a href="http://prolifepodcast.net/2013/04/de-facto-guardian/">Life-Report</a>, who has focused podcasts and written reports on this question. Indeed, the only time I have really tried to think rigorously about an argument was in relation to the violinist.<br />
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I now find the pro-life obsession on these types of arguments rather confusing, both because it is not a particularly strong argument in favor of completely elective abortion (in fact, it only absolutely applies in pregnancies due to rape), and because it is not an opinion that many thoughtful pro-choice academics, as well as average pro-choice plebeians, share.<br />
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Rather, the central question in both the grass-roots and glass-tower abortion debates is the nature of the embryo/fetus/baby. Stated more simply, when does meaningful life, worthy of protection, begin? Is all human life truly worthy of protection?<br />
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These questions lead those who wish to rationalize abortion to the strongest of the pro-choice arguments. And, indeed, we can see their effects in the publications of medical ethics journals, in the actions of biologists and geneticists, in the fertility industry, in the nature of the euthanasia debate, and in the intuition of the average Canadian citizen. So I believe it is worthwhile to spend much more time on the philosophical implications of a pro-life or pro-choice set of beliefs, especially in regard to the human who's life is truly at stake.<br />
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This is not to say that there hasn't been a huge focus, both by pro-lifers and pro-choicers, on the nature of the embryo. But almost without fail, the discussions that the average person curious about the morality of abortion have access to have been poor, emotionally charged, and philosophically vapid. I truly think it is rare to find a non-expert who has really spent time investigating their own beliefs with regards to the value of human life, and this has lead to much public discourse around abortion that is both useless and often quite nasty. <br />
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To that end, I downloaded the entire current issue of the <a href="http://jme.bmj.com/content/current">Journal of Medical Ethics</a> (May 213, Volume 39, Issue 5). This journal recently created a storm of controversy after publishing Giubilini and Minerva's now infamous article: "After-birth abortion: why should the baby live?". Because of the response the article received, the JME has now published an entire issue focused on this specific question.<br />
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So, over the course of the next few weeks I will be reading each article and posting a corresponding analysis. I know it is hard for many people who were raised in the Christian world-view to understand how this could even be a debate, because ... well, of course the baby should live - all human life is sacred! But this is not a good counter argument, and a Christian education is not the kind of education that the average Canadian, or indeed, person in any country has received. Additionally, the sanctity of all human life has certainly not been considered obvious for many human societies throughout human history - including ours. <br />
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So without further ado, I introduce you to my newest series of blog posts: The strongest pro-choice argument. I want these posts to be as thoughtful, rigorous, and academic as possible, so my goal is to post approximately one a week - though it is entirely possible it will take me much longer to make my way through the supplementary literature. Either way, I look forward to this endeavor as a way to help myself understand my own views with regards to human life, and hopefully to enlighten my readers on their own biases and unexamined opinions.<br /><br />As Socrates says, the unexamined life is not worth living. :)<br /><br />P.S. The entire JME issue appears to be open access at the moment (I downloaded the entire thing while I was at Starbucks, without having to sign into the school's library account), so if you are curious to read the original papers yourself, download them now before you will have to pay to read them!Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-36148820963372433612013-05-04T12:07:00.001-07:002013-05-04T12:07:30.921-07:00Abortion as Birth ControlSomeone needs to tell these people that they are doing no favours for the pro-choice movement.<br />
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I have no doubt that there are many, MANY women who face an agonizing decision when they choose to abort. I have no doubt that there are many women who are coerced or forced into killing their children by abusive partners, parents, or even friends.<br />
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But then there are women like this, who see abortion as no different from birth control. And I see this opinion expressed widely in my post-graduate peer group. There are many, otherwise smart and compassionate people, who see sex as so necessary to their happiness that they see tearing apart an unborn baby as no different from using a condom. Is is <i>this precise reason</i> that I believe that promoting birth control in no way helps pro-lifers promote a culture of life. Sure, maybe some abortions would be prevented, but no one would be convinced that a baby is a human being deserving of respect and life. Instead, we have people like Lisa, who would gladly turn to abortion if her birth control were to fail.<br />
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How do we go about changing opinions like these?<br />
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By the way, she tweeted this in response to my post, <a href="http://prolife-girl.blogspot.ca/2013/04/discouragement.html?spref=tw">Discouragement</a>.Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-34908824897511877452013-04-22T21:23:00.000-07:002013-04-22T21:23:27.126-07:00Video of the Week: Sr. Antoniana Maria on The Sisters of LifeThis is a beautiful interview from Sr. Antoniana Maria about her vocation to become a nun with the Sisters of Life.<br />
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Former abortionist Dr. Paul Jarrett tells of one of his experiences: <br />
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"Since hypertonic saline was so toxic if it was injected into the uterine wall instead of the amiotic sac; there was a constant search for the ideal drug. Prostaglandin has now become the drug of choice, but one of the early experiments was with hypertonic urea. The pajor disadvantage in using it, was the problem of live births. I remember using it on a patient that the psychiatric residence brought to us from their clinic from an institutionailized patient who really was crazy. I'll never forget delivering her nearly two pound baby, and hearing her screams, 'My baby's alive, my baby's alive.' It lived for several days."<br />
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Read more from clinic workers and abortion doctors at <a href="http://clinicquotes.com/">Clinic Quotes</a>. <br />
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And don't forget,<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=qEv1afKaLhA"> Planned Parenthood believes that a baby born alive after an abortion should be treated or killed according to the mother's and doctor's wishes</a>. Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-83070445505654727182013-04-14T11:55:00.000-07:002013-05-08T08:29:30.076-07:00Why the abortion debate is still not about bodily rightsMost pro-lifers agree that the strongest argument for the legality of abortion is the bodily rights argument. In fact, there's been recent chatter in the pro-life blogosphere that bodily rights is what the abortion debate boils down to, and that we should be focusing on these arguments in order to win public opinion to the pro-life side.<br />
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But while I agree that bodily rights are an important part of the pro-choice philosophy (and are, in fact, the only "good" - though not necessarily strong - argument in favour of abortion in my opinion), we Canadian pro-lifers should not make that our only focus.<br />
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Why?<br />
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Because abortion is not about bodily rights.<br />
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If it was, late term abortions would be illegal across the board. After all, birth can be induced, and with proper treatment, the baby would survive. But in Canada, there are no laws restricting the availability of abortions, regardless of the age of the baby.<br />
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Instead, we find that bodily autonomy is not the real reason that pro-choice advocates are in favour of abortion. If it was, we would not have the average abortion advocate:<br />
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At a time when there is a chance that a 21-week-old (~5-and-a-quarter-month-old) baby can <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1021034/The-tiniest-survivor-How-miracle-baby-born-weeks-legal-abortion-limit-clung-life-odds.html">survive birth</a> with almost no developmental complications, this kind of sentiment is so tragic. And it demonstrates how the debate is still not about about bodily autonomy. However, it is about personhood. It is about what the unborn baby truly is. It is about the value of a life.<br />
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If you want to know how to talk about abortion with a pro-choicer who believes that aborting a baby in the womb at any time, for any reason, is a moral choice, go to Canadian Centre for Bioethical Reform's <a href="http://www.unmaskingchoice.ca/">website</a>, and get educated. Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-81719446754369983082013-04-12T10:34:00.000-07:002013-04-14T11:17:25.300-07:00Gosnell by the Numbers<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-52426682769856891052013-04-05T16:04:00.000-07:002013-04-05T16:04:20.064-07:00Discouragement<br />
For me, one of the most discouraging things about being pro-life is seeing what other people think of the abortion issue and how cavalier or celebratory they are with regards to issues surrounding the grossly misnamed "reproductive freedom" issue. I just can't understand how someone, even someone who supports abortion in most cases, can be happy about the fact that abortions occur at all. Whether you are pro-life or pro-choice, is it not a tragedy when someone decides that they aren't able or don't want to help <i>their own family</i> live? Mom's having abortions because they can't afford their children, or because they found themselves in a situation where they don't want to be attached to the father, or because their family or partner is not supportive of any choice other than abortion, or because they aren't given the resources necessary to raise a special needs child.<br />
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The fact that abortion happens is <i>not</i> a good thing. This is our culture refusing to help mothers and children in need, and pushing a "quick fix" solution towards moms who find themselves in less than ideal circumstances. The existence of abortion is a <i>tragedy</i>. <br />
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Which is why things like this make me so sad:<br />
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Free abortion for all women - yay!! This isn't about killing our children, no, this is about having freedom! This isn't about helping women and children escape their circumstances, no, this is about having rights! <br />
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How do you convince people that they support something that has caused the deaths of billions of people? How have we gotten to the point where this is even something that has to be done?<br />
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Sometimes this world is just so discouraging.<br />
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At least things like this really highlight how necessary it is for those of us who are pro-life to speak up and engage our peers. It can be so difficult to do sometimes, but it is so, SO necessary! Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-62240261942946292462013-04-04T09:16:00.000-07:002013-04-04T09:17:24.085-07:00Failed Abortions and the Washington Post CommentatersI just came across <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/post-politics/wp/2013/04/03/priebus-media-is-covering-up-planned-parenthoods-support-for-infanticide/">this</a> article from the Washington Post, about the appalling youtube video where a Planned Parenthood representative claims that any decisions regarding care towards an infant born alive after a failed abortion should be up to the medical practitioner, the mother, and her family. In other words, abortionists should <i>not</i> be required to provide basic or lifesaving care for an infant born alive after an abortion attempt. <br />
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Chilling.<br />
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But what I really wanted to point out was the reaction this article received in the comments section. Beyond the usual "Republicans only care about your right to life from conception to birth!!!" vitriol (I find it odd that no one seems to recognize the ridiculousness of these rants considering this issue in question deals with a baby <i>after birth</i>), a lot of people are expressing disbelief that such a situation could ever happen at all. For instance, OldUncleTom writes:<br />
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"<span class="echo-item-text">I would be very surprised to see any
legitimate case of an infant born alive not receiving care. This line
of questioning sounded very hypothetical, and agenda-driven."</span><br />
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<span class="echo-item-text">AnnabelleLee16615 says:</span><br />
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<span class="echo-item-text">"</span><span class="echo-item-text">There was no proof of this [infants born alive and left to die] occurring, no
examples provided, this was an agenda driven attack by a group of
Republicans looking to earn points for denying women health services." </span><br />
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<span class="echo-item-text">and</span><br />
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<span class="echo-item-text">"</span><span class="echo-item-text"><span class="echo-item-text">When and where are these live births
occurring after botched abortions? Most states don't allow abortions
after 24 weeks. Babies born at less than 24 weeks of gestation tend not
survive. This seems like a disingenous line of questioning designed to
inflame the base, not address a real concern."</span></span><br />
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<span class="echo-item-text"><span class="echo-item-text">Curwood writes: </span></span><br />
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<span class="echo-item-text"><span class="echo-item-text">"</span></span><span class="echo-item-text"><span class="echo-item-text"><span class="echo-item-text">One might question 'botched abortions"
...and if here are actual proof of babies being born ... that far along
developmentally... and who would pay for the 100 of thousands it takes
to keep any preemie alive."</span></span></span><br />
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<span class="echo-item-text"><span class="echo-item-text"><span class="echo-item-text">These people seem to be forgetting Kermit Gosnell, who is facing the death penalty for allegedly "</span></span></span>deliver[ing] live
babies and then deliberately sever[ing] their spinal cords, killing them." (from the <a href="http://www.torontosun.com/2013/03/18/philadelphia-abortion-doctor-on-trial-ran-house-of-horrors-prosecutor">Toronto Star</a>).<br />
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I really do wonder where people get their information regarding late term abortion practices. And I wonder how these people can live with themselves, for instance: "who would pay for the 100 of thousands it takes to keep any preemie alive" as a reason in support of dismissing this rare (but not unheard of) event.<br />
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Never mind that I like to think the "100 of thousands" of dollars it took to keep me alive after I was born premature were worth it ... tell me to my face that I should have been left to die because keeping me alive is too expensive.<br />
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Seriously, abortion advocates, if even only one baby who is born (and is therefore considered a <i>live human being by the law</i>) is left to die or is deliberately killed by a doctor, then <i>it is an outrage</i> and even if you support abortion up to birth, YOU SHOULD BE PROTESTING AGAINST THIS PRACTICE. Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-13974239499879303582013-02-27T08:52:00.000-08:002013-02-27T08:53:41.968-08:00Quote of the Week: "God holds the keys to life and death - not men"<br />
I've had a long absence, but now that my life finally seems to be less busy, I will be posting here a bit more :)<br />
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As many of you are aware, I am a HUGE fan of the American organization Secular Pro-Life. I'm such a huge fan, that I have spent much of my time wishing and praying that such an organization existed in Canada, so that I could join them. I am a Catholic, but I am extremely wary of using solely "religious" arguments against abortion because I know that for someone who isn't Christian (and actually for many Christians), the Bible holds absolutely no weight, and if we only focus on Bible quotes and eternal damnation, then we aren't convincing the abortion lobby of anything and lives will continue to be lost. Anyway, this tension between the "religious" and "secular" is often on my mind. <br />
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And lo-and-behold, I just downloaded abort73's book on abortion and Christianity, and the author managed to say exactly what I have always thought about this issue, only much more eloquently. So without further ado, here is the quote of the week:<br />
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"I had one explanation for why abortion is wrong: Revelation 1:18. <i>God holds the keys to life and death - not men. </i>That was good enough for me, but it didn't go very far in public debate. [...] Because I had framed abortion in such narrow, spiritual terms, I had almost no capacity to demonstrate its injustice. And so I stayed quiet. All these years later, it's ironic that I so often condemn abortion on scientific grounds while my opponents defend it on pseudo-religious grounds. I argue that abortion kills a living human being; they argue that they're not yet persons. I argue that there is no debate regarding the biological beginning of human life; they argue there is more to being human than biology. I argue that embryos and fetuses are just as human as we are; they argue that they don't have a soul (even if they call it something else). [...] [I]t can actually be easier to argue against abortion from biology than from the Bible."<br />
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- Michael Spielman (from his self-released book: <a href="http://www.abort73.com/gear/books/">Love the Least (a lot)</a>) Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-3117365285695027152013-01-16T19:00:00.000-08:002013-01-16T19:00:00.390-08:00You HAVE to read this<a href="http://catholicmoxie.wordpress.com/2013/01/16/the-line-we-can-live-with-just-a-little-abortion-please/">link</a><br />
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Seriously, this is an awesome post about where to draw the line on abortion.<br />
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Read. Share. That is all.<br />
Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-55148470712984899422013-01-06T14:04:00.002-08:002013-01-06T14:04:23.178-08:00Chimeras and their impact on the pro-life movementHi Everyone!<br />
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This is my first post in awhile. First off, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! I hope everyone had as an amazing holiday as I did. <br />
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Sadly, it is now time to head back to school.<br /><br />
This blog post will be short, and it is mostly to ask my fellow pro-lifers what they think of an interesting <a href="http://myscienceacademy.org/2013/01/03/27-science-fictions-that-became-science-facts-in-2012/">biology experiment</a> I read about recently (scroll down to #14 to read about it. Also, read the rest of the article, a lot of it is really cool!).<br />
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"While all the donor cells were from rhesus monkeys [the cells were used to create baby chimera monkeys], the researchers combined up to six distinct embryos into three baby monkeys. According to D. Mtalipov, 'The cells never fuse, but they stay together and work together to form tissues and organs.' Chimera species are used in order to understand the role specific genes play in embryonic development and may lead to a better understanding of genetic mutation in humans."<br />
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From my understanding of this blurb, what happened is sort of like the reverse of twinning? Do you think this has any impact on a complete pro-life philosophy, where we maintain that we are individuals at the moment of conception when we are (however briefly) still single-cell embryos? For that matter, do you think identical twins have any impact on this same pro-life philosophy?<br />
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I haven't thought too deeply about this yet, but my first impulse is to maintain that distinct (from the mother) human life begins at conception, regardless of whether it develops from a single embryo into multiple embryos or vice versa, and so the mother still does not have any right to end what nature has started.<br />
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Another (possibly really stupid) question for hard-core biologists - is it possible that what happened with the chimera monkeys could happen frequently in nature (i.e.: two eggs are both fertilized at once and instead of having fraternal twins, the embryos work together to form a single developing baby?)<br />
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Aside: If you have the background to understand more about chimeras, please enlighten us in the comments!<br />
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Cheers!Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-22665100690309423372012-12-11T16:43:00.000-08:002012-12-11T16:43:04.747-08:00A Quick Hello and Update :)Hello everyone,<br />
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So my blogging has been VERY very sparse lately. I really apologize, but I have been going through a lot in the past few months. Long story short, there has been a lot of negativity in my life for a very long time - negativity over where I am (grad school can do that to you - I try not to worry about this), negativity over missing home, and negativity in how I see the world. So a few months ago I decided to take some control. I took a look at my life, and tried to figure out where my awful feelings were coming from.<br />
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One thing that I noticed was that for awhile now, a new view had started creeping into my consciousness. I started seeing everyone around me in a new light. Instead of loving them for who they were, and taking them as they are right now, I started focusing way too much on the wrongness of their views. And lets face it, I'm at a Canadian university, which means that pretty much every single person I meet is pro-choice. It really takes a toll on you, and a toll on how you can relate to others, when you stop seeing people as flawed and instead see them as wrong. So I stepped back from my blog, and I stopped spending ages reading pro-life news (though I've stayed pretty active on my Twitter account). And I finally realized that I wasn't seeing other people as wrong per se, but I was actually seeing myself that way and was comforting myself by thinking "Well, <i>at least </i>I don't think that abortion is a <i>good</i> thing". And why was I telling myself this? Because, in all honesty (and I am very ashamed of this, which is perhaps why it took me so long to admit to myself), other than this blog and the odd debate with a friend or family member, I don't really do much to forward the pro-life cause. I don't attend rallies. I'm not part of my school's pro-life group. I've never gone to March For Life. I don't volunteer at a Crisis Pregnancy Centre. But as soon as I realized that I was actually feeling awful about myself, I started being afraid. And the more I thought about being pro-life the more terrified I became. Every time I met someone new I was worried that they would hate me because I am pro-life - and this is strange, because I have never, ever in my life before this point cared about what others thought of me. This part of the negativity was coming from the pro-choice side of the debate and all the blame and anger and terror that I see there. I was starting to view the average person, who is only pro-choice by default, as a pro-choice activist and someone who would immediately start hating me if they knew my views. So I knew I had to take a break from all of this - both to get myself in line, and to get my views of the people around me back to a healthy and normal place.<br />
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Therefore, my absence. <br />
<br />My other sources of negativity I can't do much about. I need to finish my degree before I decide what to do with my life, and I'm stuck far from home until I finish my degree. I think my main worry here is that I love doing my PhD and I LOVE the work that I do, but ultimately my goal in life is to be a stay at home mom - and after spending so much time reading pro-life blogs I've become exposed to how sahm's are treated by the mainstream, and I've started feeling as if my friends and family would never accept my life's choices once I started a family, even though I have told them that I want to stay at home with my kids and everyone has seemed supportive of it (but really, I secretly think that they have lost their respect for me because I'm degrading myself by one day aspiring to be a homemaker). So you see, again, a source of negativity that I thought had to do with my circumstances, but instead has to do with reading too much on the internet. <br />
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So, as I said before, I decided to take charge. I stopped blogging - or at least blogged much less. I focused more on school. I made a commitment to go to church at least twice a week, and I have mostly kept it. Things are looking up. My next step, once I have all these new habits down, is to start volunteering again. And once that has happened, I will start blogging regularly again. Hopefully by that point, I will have my life under control and I will be a strong person so that imersing myself in the pro-life movement won't take such a toll to the point that I am no longer able to sympathize with those who's minds I am trying to change. And maybe then I will be braver and more able to speak with eloquence and compassion about why abortion is wrong. <br />
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Oh, and unless I'm stuck working on an experiment, I will be at the March for Life this year. Hopefully I get to see some of you there! <br />
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Anyway, I just wanted to let you all know why I've been away for so long. You have all been so amazing, and I can't tell you how much I appreciate all of your comments, follows (both here and on Twitter), retweets, and prayers. Thanks and I will be blogging lightly again within the next week or so, so see you all then!<br />
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Me :)Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-39588261389828745192012-11-12T14:03:00.001-08:002012-11-12T14:06:05.181-08:00A pro-choicer's views on life and sufferingA mini-abortion debate recently came to my attention, and I found the pro-choicer's thoughts to be particularly interesting:<br />
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What I want to focus on first is this person's fixation with <i>suffering</i>: "if it [the baby]'s <b>forced to be born </b>[notice that the connotation here is that allowing a baby to be born is a bad thing because we are <i>forcing</i> life on him or her - as if a baby can express any other wish besides a wish for survival] to a mother that <b>cannot or does not wish to take care of it</b>, there is a fairly high chance of <b>it being hurt</b> (either through <b>neglect</b> or <b>abuse</b>) its entire childhood."</div>
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There are two things here that are problematic. First, the assumption that a reluctant mother only has two choices: to kill her baby or to keep her baby and abuse it horrifically (ever heard of adoption? Ever heard of empowering surprise mothers to be the absolute best mothers they can possibly be? Ever heard of helping mothers escape the negativity in their lives so that they can provide for their children?). This is <i>far</i> from an accurate representation of both what the mother's options actually are, and what surprise babies go through in their early childhood. There is absolutely no guarantee that a surprise baby will be abused, nor is there a guarantee that a wanted baby will not be abused. I firmly believe that abuse does not happen because of "wantedness", but instead because parents view their children in some way as "sub-par" or under their own exclusive control (this ignores the fact that many people who have gone through horrific things in their own lives often act out these same patterns towards others - intervention, counseling, and love can go a long way in helping such parents or children break the cycle). </div>
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The second thing that is problematic here is this pro-choicer's view of suffering. According to him or her, future suffering is a legitimate reason to end a life. There is one thing that I want to make absolutely clear: it is not up to us to decide if someone else's life (or future life) as unlivable - to make such a judgement is the height of arrogance. But this ignores the very obvious fact that <i>all of us suffer at some point in our lifetimes</i> - and most people outside of the developed world suffer far more than we could ever imagine. However, even if one has the North American view of a picture-perfect life, one is still not protected from suffering. Horrible things happen all the time. Death does not solve these problems. And if it does, what is stopping us from euthanizing the very mentally ill and heavily addicted homeless drug abusers who drift through life hardly aware of what is happening to themselves and what is happening around them? What is stopping us from euthanizing the starving multitudes of families living in abject poverty who will likely die anyway? What is stopping us from euthanizing populations who are likely to be caught in the middle of a war zone, and who will either die instantly or suffer horrifically once the gunfire and bombing starts? What is stopping us from allowing car crash victims to pass "peacefully" into the night instead of attempting to save them?</div>
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The unborn, as clearly evidenced by this pro-choicer's views, do not enjoy these two protections, in spite of the fact that many (I would argue the majority of) unplanned babies in the developed world have a much better chance at a cushy, relatively pain-free life than the majority of humans on this planet, and in spite of the fact that they have whole lives of possibility ahead of them in which they can make decisions for themselves as to the value of their own lives.</div>
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The other point I want to emphasize is this person's opinion of what human life actually is and therefore what constitutes harm: "... a baby does not have a brain that is even remotely aware of anything until after 20 weeks [I think what she means to say is that it does not have <i>detectable</i> brainwaves before this - loosely defined - cutoff]. So while <b>this baby looks human, it isn't capable of feeling and therefore cannot be hurt</b>. [...] If someone is only a mechanism of reflexes, without the ability of any cognition, <b>they are not yet human</b>, in my opinion." </div>
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First of all, expecting a baby to prove that it is "alive" and "human" by showing signs of cognition above its developmental ability is both ridiculous and extremely unfair. Never mind that this understanding of human life is patently inaccurate. This view is firmly placed in the realm of philosophy, not science, and to present it as otherwise is highly misleading. It also excludes an inordinate amount of our disabled and mentally ill populations from enjoying the so-called status of "human life" and has the overtones of eugenic thought woven into a seemingly "sophisticated" and "fair" worldview. Look into philosophies espoused by Peter Singer or the recently published "After-Birth Abortion: Why Should the Baby Live?" to see where such opinions will logically lead. The idea that we cannot be hurt if we are not aware of the harm is particularly pernicious, as such a view could be ascribed to anyone, not just an unborn baby before 20 weeks. If I am killed in my sleep, I will never know that my life has been ended and so I do not have a chance to either mourn or become aware of my loss. If I die instantly in a car crash, I will at the most feel only momentary pain and will never know what has been taken from me. If I torture and murder someone who has overdosed on drugs or alcohol they will never know or understand what has happened to them. If I steal a misplaced lottery ticket that happens to win me millions of dollars, the true owner will never know what they lost. If I am raped in my bed in a drug-induced sleep, but not hurt or stolen away, I could be totally unaware that anything horrible ever happened to me. If I slowly murder a severely mentally-challenged or ill patient, they cannot understand that they are about to lose their life. If a slaver (or a husband) takes advantage of his slaves (or his wife) who have been conditioned to believe that they are property, the slaves (wife) have no concept of harm being done. Now, the After-Birth Abortion paper does attempt to circumvent these types of objections (at least, when applied to healthy, cognitively-abled people), but I am not convinced that they succeed (perhaps this is because I do not understand their argument, but I truly believe that it is a weak one). And I would hope that most people can view an entire life being stolen away as harm - with the assumption that the unborn baby is a "human life" and not a "preparatory stage for life" (when exactly, then, does this "shell" of an unborn child accept the life that it has been preparing for? flipping <i>weird</i> way to view human development imo, especially because - other than conception - there is no hard and fast line between one stage and another). Never mind that many people no longer believe in the presence of a soul, and many Christians believe that the body and the soul are intricately intertwined, and very clearly the baby's body exists before 20 weeks - so I ask again, what is this change that suddenly turns a body into a human life? </div>
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Hi Everyone!!! I know I have been gone for a really long time, and I am SO sorry for abandoning you! However, I am happy to say that I am back! *Woot!* Though I probably won't be blogging that often this year - its been a very busy time in terms of school. Lots of exciting things are happening with my sciencey stuff, and they require a lot of concentration, time, and effort. I will do my best to blog at least once a week though, and keep up with my ____ of the Week series! :)<br />
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One thing that I have been meaning to discuss for awhile is living out a pro-life philosophy. In my view, this doesn't just involve advocating against abortion and euthanasia (though obviously those are big ticket items!). It also involves taking care of ourselves, each other, and our environment. That can include being welcoming and kind to whoever you meet, encouraging young mothers, and advocating for the oppressed both in our society and throughout the world. However, I also believe that a pro-life philosophy can also permeate the more personal aspects of our lives. And I'm not just talking about NFP (the only natural way to family plan!!! WOOT). I'm talking about making changes in your life that support the oppressed, that foster healthy environments, and that avoid as much as possible pumping out toxins into our precious planet. One way that I've tried to accomplish this is by slowly switching myself over towards a veggie-based, local, organic diet and I thought I'd share some stuff which has worked well for me :)<br />
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<b> (1) Find a natural foods store and shop there!</b><br />
<br />Seriously, shopping at natural foods grocery store has been the single most important catalyst for change (the other is my health-obsessed boyfriend). Most foods at these places are labelled, and they also tend to carry seasonal, local products. Its easy to tell what is organic and what isn't, and if you're lucky, the grocery store will also sell some awesome organic, all-natural soaps and beauty products!<br />
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<b>(2) Cook every night. Find a good cookbook and some cooking blogs to inspire you!</b><br /><br />
Good food is satisfying and makes use of a wide variety of ingredients. Find a cookbook (with lots of pictures, and lots of instructions!) that includes a variety of recipes, and you will never get sick of the food you make!<br />
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My current favourite cookbook is called "ReFresh", and it is based off of the menu of an amazing Toronto-based vegetarian and vegan restaurant called "<a href="http://www.freshrestaurants.ca/">Fresh</a>". Seriously, this cookbook has been a life-saver. I am not a vegetarian, so I do add some meat to the dishes occasionally, but it really isn't necessary in order to feel satisfied. I also have to mention their delicious shakes (especially their espresso ones!) and desserts. If you want a cookbook to help you start on your journey towards eating more natural foods, this is definitely a great place to start.<br />
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Of course, why turn to cookbooks when there are so many people on the internet willing to share their secrets for free? Some of my favourite foodie blogs include:<br /><br />
a) <a href="http://www.101cookbooks.com/index.html">101 Cookbooks: A Recipe Journal by Heidi</a><br />
I think the main reason why I love this blog is the pictures. Heidi is an amazing photographer and everything always looks so delicious. She organizes her recipes not only by the traditional "Appetizer", "Main Course", (etc..) headings, but also divides them by vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, high-protein and whole grain recipes for those with dietary restrictions or health needs. She also has some great articles with awesome tips for anyone trying to get away from highly-processed foods. You should definitely look at "Build a Natural Foods Pantry" before exploring any of her recipes. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.101cookbooks.com/archives/green-olive-gnocchi-recipe.html">Green Olive Gnocchi</a></td></tr>
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b) <a href="http://www.fettlevegan.com/index.html">Fettle Vegan by Amber</a><br />
The main thing I love about this site is the desserts. I never knew junk food could be so healthy but so AMAZING at the same time. I've tried a few of her recipes and I can't recommend them enough. Especially her Almond Butter Cups. Yummn. I'm sure the other food is great too, but her desserts look so mouth-watering that I haven't yet had a chance to make something that didn't include honey or chocolate.<br />
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c) <a href="http://www.thekitchn.com/">The Kitchn</a><br />
A daughter site to the popular Apartment Therapy blog, the Kitchn is a great place to browse for new recipes. They provide their own, but also include posts from all over the internet, and a lot of my favourite foodie blogs have been found through them. If you want to waste a lot of time, get a tonne of amazing kitchen tips, and make yourself really hungry, go there!<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.thekitchn.com/recipe-egg-noodles-with-rich-chicken-curry-sauce-khao-soi-179140?utm_campaign=topblock&utm_medium=web&utm_source=main-entry">Egg Noodles with Rich Curry Chicken Sauce</a></td></tr>
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<b>(3) Grow your own food!!</b><br /><br />
If you're like me, and are a young adult, you likely do not have access to a lawn. However, growing food indoors is not that difficult, and can be a tonne of fun! I am lucky in that my grandparents immegrated here, and in the "Old Country" they were farmers. So eating food "from the garden" has always been a part of my lifestyle. But if you are nervous about starting your own, there is a wealth of instructions all over the internet, including some great video tutorials on youtube. Pick a plant you want to grow, and search for it on Google! You'll become an expert in no time :)<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.centsationalgirl.com/2010/01/happiness-is-an-indoor-herb-garden/">Happiness is an Indoor Herb Garden, by Centsational Girl</a></td></tr>
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The best part? Depending on what you grow, your apartment can smell absolutely delicious all the time. I attempted this last year, and so far have only succeeded in growing a few herbs. But herbs are extremely useful to grow, and a great way to start out if you don't have much experience with plants (like me). A lot of herbs, like basil and oregano, are hardy and just need water and sun. The best part is, buying herbs from the grocery store can be really expensive, and if you buy fresh you end up having to dry most of them out anyway. If you grow them yourself, you have constant, year-round access to (essentially) free, fresh herbs!<br /><br />
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<br />Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-56717794365700885452012-09-22T18:53:00.001-07:002012-09-22T18:53:59.180-07:00Song of the Week: "He Woke Me Up Again" by Sufjan Stevens<br />
<span id="goog_1785478574">He's got a great lyrical style. Enjoy :)</span><br />
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Awkward.<br />
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Aside: I know some people (*cough* Americans) spell honour without a "u" but I can't get over how weird it looks. So British-colony of me! Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3063723851740620390.post-1196180200343668692012-09-14T12:38:00.000-07:002012-09-14T12:38:14.157-07:00Talking about abortion is really scary<br />
The other day I was hanging out with some friends from school.<br />
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It was a ridiculously hot day, so we decided to go out for bubble tea (i.e.: basically fruit smoothies, because none of us like tapioca).<br />
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While we were talking, somehow we came to the topic of downloading movies and music for free off of the Internet, and whether it is a crime or not.<br />
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One of my friends brought up an interesting point:<br />
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"Oh please. It's not like downloading stuff off of the Internet is all that bad. I mean, it's not like the question of whether or not you want to keep a baby!"<br />
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This would have been the perfect opportunity to steer the conversation towards the question of abortion. Instead, like always, my palms got all sweaty, my heart started racing, and my eyes started to water (I get that upset when I think about killing babies!). Instead of addressing his point - which is a good one (i.e.: people get all worked up about downloading some songs you probably wouldn't have bought anyway, and yet no one cares that there are children being created only to be discarded), I jumped in right away and brought the conversation back to downloading.<br />
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Seriously. I'm still wondering why I did that.<br />
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I need to grow a pair!<br />
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Does anyone else have trouble discussing abortion with friends or family? Dolcehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12241718773239321455noreply@blogger.com2